Yesterday, for the third time in a month I attended a funeral for a firefighter who was killed in the line of duty. Last month was the funerals of West Webster firefighters Michael ‘Chip’ Chiapperini and Tomasz Kaczowka, who were murdered while responding to a fire on Christmas Eve. Yesterday was the funeral for 34 year old Owego, NY Fire Capt. Matthew Porcari, who was killed while fighting a house fire in Newark Valley when the floor collapsed. Also injured in that fire was Porcari’s close friend, Lieutenant Daniel Gavin.
Three members of my department made the two and a half hour journey from Rochester to Owego to attend the service. After meeting my wife for breakfast prior to leaving, we were all shocked to discover that someone had already taken care of our bill. Whoever that person is, we all truly appreciated your gesture. Thank you!
Rolling into Owego you really get the impression of a quaint little town on the banks of the Susquehanna River. Zigzagging through town to the school where the funeral was being held there were the familiar signs of a community in mourning everywhere; flags at half staff, signs of support, and bunting on the fire stations. The route was very well marked with directional signs and when you got close to the school there were fire police directing traffic all the way to your parking spot. Fire apparatus lined both sides of the road, and hundreds of firefighters from all over North America were once again present including some from Ottawa, Canada and Los Angeles, CA.
The service itself was beautiful as friends and family told stories about Matt, who left behind a wife and two children. The stage in the school’s auditorium was filled from one side to the other with flowers, and a lone bagpiper played as Matt’s family was escorted to their seats. One of the tougher moments came when his daughter showed incredible bravery by going up on stage to read her letter and was unable. Matt’s pastor read the letter for her, but only after she received a thunderous round of applause for having the courage to even try reading it herself. The procession following the service was kept to immediate family and local firefighters only, so the rest of us lined both sides of the road and saluted as they passed.
All were welcomed back into the school cafeteria for a reception at the end of the services, and styrofoam containers were provided for those who could not stay. We grabbed some food and then headed to the car for our journey home. Before leaving town, however, we paid a visit to the Owego Firefighters Memorial that sits atop a fountain in the town square.
Before getting on the road we stopped for gas at a Valero station near the entrance to 17 West and were shocked when the manager walked out to the pumps and offered us free coffee or soda for the ride home. Another small but meaningful gesture had humbled us once again and the three of us thanked him several times.
The family has requested donations be made to the following in memory of Capt. Matthew Porcari:
Porcari Children Memorial Fund c/o First Niagara Bank, 18 Lake St., Owego, NY 13827
or
Croton Hose Company #3 c/o Tom Donovan, 71 Talcott St., Owego, NY 13827
Regarding my 365 project, this is photo #6 which comes on day #7 (somehow I missed a day) but was an easy subject to decide on.